Here we are, two months into our first semester of college, and strangely, it feels like we’ve been here much, much longer. Only two months? I don’t know about everyone else, but personally, it feels like I’ve been here for at least a year. So much has happened in these past two months, I could easily fill a novel. They’ve been filled with some of the most exciting, stressful, scary, amazing moments of my life so far. I’ve met a lot of different people from all walks of life, and made some great friends.
I’ve had a lot of fun going to football games, exploring downtown Columbia, walking around campus (especially with the trees now changing colors), watching late night movies with friends, and spending time with my sorority sisters. I’ve learned a lot in these two months, not just in the classroom, but also from my new experiences as a college student. I’ve had to learn to be independent and do things on my own. For example, I’ve learned that by the time your dirty clothes are piling up higher than your desk, it’s probably a good idea to do laundry. I’ve also learned from living in Missouri for two months that no matter what the weather is at the current moment, there’s no guarantee it will be like that in 5 minutes (I now carry an umbrella in my purse at all times).
I’ve also had to deal with the freedom that comes with being 2,000 miles away from home. I can sleep in and skip my biology lecture class easily, but I’ve quickly learned that there are consequences to doing it too frequently. I can stay up as late as I want, watch movies and hang out instead of studying, wear yoga pants and a baseball cap to class everyday, eat the exact same salad and grilled chicken sandwich for dinner e-v-e-r-y singly day, go for; well, let’s just say a “long time” without sleeping in my own bed, keep my desk eternally messy (much to the dismay of my roommate), and do whatever I want without anyone telling me otherwise. In fact, these past two months, the expression: “I can do whatever I want”, has crossed my lips more times than I can count.
I’m not saying that I haven’t made some mistakes or that I’ve had the perfect first two months of college. Just as it is in life, these first two months have had their share of both up’s and down’s. I’ve had some of my happiest, most fun moments here, as well as some of my most unhappy, upsetting moments too. Still, despite the slight missteps, I feel content knowing that I’ve succeeded in emerging from these two extremely stressful months, relatively unscathed. One of my biggest worries moving from Seattle, Washington to Columbia, Missouri was that I would become so homesick it would become unbearable. Surprisingly, I never got homesick like I had expected. The few times I wished I could go home, at least for a moment, were when I had the flu and then after a particularly painful argument.
At the moment, I can’t wait to go home for Thanksgiving break. It will be nice to be back in Seattle. I can’t wait to feel that crisp, rainy fall weather I’ve known my whole life, to get a chai tea latte from the Starbucks right by my house, eat real Chinese food, and, of course, see my family and friends. I’m looking forward to going back for a little bit, but I’m sure once I’m there, I’ll be even more anxious to get back to Columbia. Columbia is my new home now, and even though I’ve only been here two months, I already feel like this is where I truly belong. J